Saturday, December 26, 2009

Lets Talk Wedding: Photographer, Date and Venue

These were the first three things that were priority on my list: Photographer, Date and Venue. I had to pick the date first because I needed a date to give the photographer. I have always wanted to get married in September, but this year my Alma Matter had a home football game EVERY Saturday in September...so, September was out. Yes, I'm that girl who schedules my wedding around football...get over it!!! :) I looked at the last weekend in August, but that would have been pretty stressful b/c Ken and I were in Minnesota two weeks before the date. I knew that wasn't fair to my mom to not be around. So, we went to October. I really wanted it to be the first weekend, but now that we had a month we started talking to our pastor. We knew we couldn't do it without him! We absolutely LOVE him!!!! Because of a family vacation my brother was taking, it was between two dates...October 3rd and October 24th. I so badly was hoping it would be the 3rd, but at first we thought that was the weekend the Men's retreat was scheduled for. Fortunately, we found out the Men's Retreat at church that our pastor was teaching at was on the 24th....so we had our date!!!! October 3rd!!!!

Next? Photographer!!! I had found my photographer a long time ago (well, maybe 6 months to a year before the engagement) and called them first. I love photography and I love looking at different sites online. And of course, I always knew God would bring me someone and I would need a photographer. :) I had looked at SOOOO many different photographers in Oklahoma. There are many good ones. BUT, Storybook Wedding Photography was far superior to any that I had seen. Now, the one thing that I noticed what that the photographers who do not post their prices online are WAY over-priced...so I discarded them immediately. And, the pictures at Storybook were so much better than any of the photographers that didn't list their prices anyway....so, I got the best in all areas!!! Another thing I just love about Storybook is that they give you a CD with copyrights to all your photos! I LOVE that!!! I don't have to pay a fortune from those photographers that print their own pictures...AND, I can order whenever I want. I don't have to worry about them getting rid of my negatives. I called them and they had my date open!!! They were amazing to work with!!! They gave me references to help with finding a venue...which we were having a really hard time with!! Throughout the entire process they were so helpful! Two days before the wedding, my photographer (Sarah) called me and we went over everything...and she even called Ken to talk to him about some details so I didn't have to worry about it. Not only were they helpful and easy to work with, they have AMAZING talent!!!!And, then on to the Venue! This was a MUCH bigger issue! I thought this would be the easy part. There are PLENTY of places that we could have had it! It seems that even thought October isn't considered a busy "wedding" month, its busy for other things like reunions. We booked the church immediately and were excited b/c my parents' church was building a new building and it was looking beautiful! The reception was a little more work. I really was hoping to have it at this place called "The Barn." I thought this was PERFECT for us....but it was booked....every week until October 24th (of course). I still see these pictures and just fall in love with it!!! However, I LOVED our reception! And, we would have stressed A LOT b/c there was rain everyday up until the day of our wedding! So, God was very good to intercede. From here, we tried anything we could think of....from hotels, the zoo, the aquarium, the air and space museum, golf clubs, chapels, garden center, German society and even my parents' back yard! We called EVERYWHERE we could think of!!!! Our final choices (and seemed like our only choices that weren't booked already) were the Renaissance Hotel and The Zoo. I was really pushing for the zoo because it was fun and different (and would have GREAT photo opps), but my mom was worried about how far we would have to walk in our dressy clothes and "what if it RAINS?". We had appointments with both places. Before our appointments, Ken and I had some errands to run. While running these errands, it was POURING!!!!! My first thought was, "I really DON'T want my guests to have to walk in this kind of rain....or any rain!" If it rained, people don't want to have to walk in their fancy clothes through it!!!! Plus, rain takes away from all interesting, fun photo opps. And, the biggest reason, I didn't want people to skip the reception due to rain. As all of this was on my mind, one of the errands we were running just happened to be in the same area as the zoo. In a BAD area!!! Then I started thinking that it really wouldn't be good if any of our guests got lost after dark in this area. I was starting to lose hope on the zoo. The Renaissance appointment was first. As we were exiting off the highway, you can almost reach out and touch the hotel. It made me realize how EASY it was for our guests to get there and it was SOOOO much closer to the church than the zoo. Yet, again, it made me think, "I don't want our guests to skip the reception because the zoo is so far away." Ken and I (and my dad) walked into the Renaissance and we immediately made up our mind. Ken and I both thought it was PERFECT!!! Plus, we got a free room on the wedding night! We cancelled our appointment at the zoo. And we signed a contract with Melissa (at The Renaissance)!!!! Our favorite wedding coordinator!!! When my mom got there, she was excited b/c they have a Starbucks at the hotel!!!! Here are some pictures of The Renaissance and their wedding receptions:
A few months later, my mom, Ken's mom, and I ate lunch there. It was really good!!!! I was hoping the catering for events was as good as their restaurant. We didn't get to have a taste test, but they were working with our budget so I wasn't going to push for that.

Friday, December 25, 2009

Our First Christmas

Ken and I celebrated our first Christmas as a married couple today. He worked. I was stuck at home due to weather. For just a minute, I got a little home sick. My parents were supposed to come and spend the afternoon with us and have dinner. I was excited b/c I had my menu all planned out too!!! The weather has been so bad and my parents weren't able to make it. It was weird to be alone all day long...but the second Ken got home it was good and it felt like Christmas!
We had opened presents from each other all week! I think we opened our first on Monday night. I gave him his "big" gift so he could play with it while he was off work. He got a remote control helicopter. And, I opened a new Carhart hoodie and boot socks!!! Tuesday night we went to my parents and stayed the night there. We celebrated Christmas with the family the next day. We had to drive back home on Wednesday night so Ken could go to work on Thursday. Which was a blessing b/c the weather was too bad to drive in. While at home, we opened presents from the family. Ken got a game feeder, target, pj's, ammo, arrow nocks, gift certificate to Bass Pro, and some pistol magazines. I got a lamp and shade for the house, a Pottery Barn knitted throw, wide-angle lens, pj's (which I have lived in for the past 2 days), ammo, an ornament, anti-bacterial soap in my favorite scent, and a shirt and jacket from Forever 21. We had a Cowboy Christmas filled with brisket, rolls, mac and cheese, cheesy potatoes, corn casserole, cheesecake, and chocolate trifle. The food and fellowship were wonderful!!!!When we got home on Wednesday, we opened another present. He got a camo rain coat and pants for hunting. I got some North Face gloves and a $50 gift certificate to get the matching coat (if I wanted it).

Christmas Eve was a complete day of sleet and snow. I relaxed at home and truthfully didn't do all that much. We were really wanting to go to our church for the Christmas Eve service, but the weather was so bad they cancelled. So, we made homemade calzones and opened the rest of our presents. Ken got a trail camera for his hunting next year. I got a nice dressy shirt and dress slacks for work.....AND, he has paid my tuition for a photography class that I get to take with my best friend, Michelle! She and I MIGHT be addicted to taking pictures....just maybe! :)

And, tonight when Ken got home he worked on a few things getting us ready for the night, and I finished dinner. We had a really nice dinner. I made everything out of my Christmas book (the book my mom put together as a wedding present. all our friends and family added traditions and recipes.). I made Fran's prime rib, Lynne's green bean bundles, Kim's dump rice, Sandie's molasses cookies, and Aunt Tricia's apple cake (I also make a glaze to go on the bread with butter, orange juice and powdered sugar. Its not out of the book, but its a recipe I got from one of my bridal showers). Everything was SOOOO wonderful! I was really surprised at how well it all turned out. Usually when I try new recipes, there is something I would change or we wouldn't like....but honestly, everything was so good!!! I shouldn't be surprised b/c we know ALOT of good cooks! This will be a tradition we carry on....making recipes from my book every Christmas Day!

This is our table....its not very fancy, but we did use our china. It was very spur of the moment, so maybe next year it will be much more festive!!!!
After dinner, we took a few pictures and then we sat in the living room and opened our stockings from each other. Santa brough Ken York peppermint patties, 3 pairs of boot socks, a $5 gift card to starbucks, and a $5 gift card to marble slab. Santa brought me a $50 gift card to Old Navy b/c he knows I want new clothes!!!! :)
These are the ATTEMPTS to get a good family photo ;)
Then it was time for the dogs to open their stocking. They share a stocking. Ruger got a stuffed Mallard...his favorite. And Lexis got a new squeaky football...her favorite. And they both got a new bone. :) They also got special meals today. They had canned food with venison, sweet potatoes, peas, and apples. They were VERY excited about meal time!!!!

And, how beautiful was the night tonight??? I mean, really? Seeing just a part of God's glory on this earth!!! Its been making me think of my grandma, Ma. This is our first Christmas without her....but I changed that mind-set to this is her first Christmas with HIM!!! What a glorious, magnificent experience....Christmas in Heaven!!!!! Oh the voices of angels!!!! I can only imagine!!! There is no place she would rather be!!!! Here are a few pictures of our glimpse of God's glory that He reveals to us...and on Christmas Day! This Christmas has really been wonderful! Not only do I get to celebrate my Savior's birth and know that I will be with Him one day....I also get to celebrate with my believing family and believing husband!!! What a blessing!!!!

I'm Dreaming of a White Christmas...Oh, Wait! Its Not A Dream!

Here is our White Christmas!!!! What a beautiful, beautiful day! While its not the most fun to be out in b/c the wind is SO bad and cold, its still WHITE! Merry CHRISTmas!!!!
Below was taken from the garage. The ruts are from Ken leaving for work this morning. He said it took awhile to get out of our driveway....and it took 2 hours to get to work!!!!

This is our front porch... Ruger gets so cold that he goes and lays RIGHT next to our wood burning stove. He's about 2 inches from it. Kenny and I have to use gloves to open it b/c its so hot! I try to keep Ruger on the couch covered in a blanket, but when I'm in the kitchen, he wants to be close.

Our cat, Flip, is SOOO bored being in the garage all the time, he just sits in the window looking out. So sad :(

Going Home

I love going home. I never thought I would be "that" adult that loves going home. I enjoy seeing the stages of life come out in me. In college, I loved being independant. When I was single, I liked going home, but always wanted to the opportunity to be at my church for holidays. Now that I'm married, I really love walking in my parents' house...the smell, the decorations, the warmth, and I just love my home town.

We give my mom a hard time about her perfectionism, but I love that she makes the home so warm and Christmasy....I know my dad helps too. :) I love going home because its surrounded in love and the true meaning of Christmas....Christ's Birth. While we have a Santa Claus or two up for decoration, you can't walk into my parents' home and not see CHRIST! He is the only thing to truly celebrate at this time of year. All the other things I just absolutely LOVE about Christmas...family, food, music, decorations, finding the perfect gifts for the people we love, sharing baked goodies with friends and family....all fall short of the BIRTH OF CHRIST! While some still celebrate all the other things I love about Christmas and leave Christ out, Christmas is just another day....lonely for some, depressing for others, empty, completely selfish, and many still simply seeking for anything to fill that void inside. Ironically, the only thing that can fill that void is Christ! The one thing that can fill their void and give people peace, is the one thing they are so desperately trying to avoid and pretend doesn't exist.

The Holy God, became human....and not just human, but came as a baby! He had to learn to walk and talk...all while He is 100% MAN, He was STILL 100% GOD!!! He was born to save the lost! A verse that so many know is John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that He gave is only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him will not perish, but have everlasting life." Most people don't read the next verse...which is my favorite...John 3:17 "For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved."

I wish more people would let go of their pride and truly KNOW Him! Know His character! Know His love! Know His faithfulness! Know His salvation!

All of this, I learned growing up at home. And by grace alone I have clung to Him for dear life!!! He is completely sufficient! He is my perfect Friend and Father! I could not do life without Him!!

My prayer is that my friends, my family and you believe in Him and trust that the only way you can spend eternal life with Him is through faith that Christ was born a human (while still God...not giving up any part of His diety), lived a perfect life, died for your sins, AND rose again on the 3rd day!!! He paid the price for our sins that we each deserve to pay! Christ was God's perfect gift, given by grace, so that we can be reconciled to Him.

One day, because I've trusted Christ as my Lord and Savior, I will get to truly go HOME! As much I love going home now, I can't imagine the glorious COMING HOME we will all have, as believers, entering God's Home! The food, family, fellowship, singing, giving, and serving that will take place is beyond anything we can comprehend!

May God and his gracious gift of salvation become more real to you this Christmas!!! And I pray that I will see you AT HOME one day!

Its Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas

The Blizzard of '09 hit on Christmas Eve! Its been a crazy day!!! Thankfully I got all my errands out of the way when we got home last night b/c we thought it might get bad...and it did!!!! The rain/sleet started between 7-8am. I could hear it hitting the windows while I was sleeping. I was hoping to wake up to snow, but no such luck. I took the dogs out and it was sleeting so hard, it hurt when it hit my face. The snow started around 10:30 or 11am. The flakes were HUGE!!! And it just never stopped! The govenor declared a state of emergency and was bringing in the military for aide. Tomorrow they are supposed to bring in helicopters to help any people that are still stranded in their cars. Too many people were out trying to get their last minute shopping finished....in one part of the state, there was a 50 car pile up. It was a crazy mess!!! Its beautiful, but I disappointed that my parents won't be able to make it here tomorrow for Christmas! Hopefully they make it late in the weekend!

These were taken at 9:30am:
These were taken at 11:30am:
These were taken between 1-2:30pm:
This was the last set of pictures I took. It was starting to get too dark and I was making dinner. Stay tuned tomorrow for more pictures! These were taken between 3-4:30pm:
As of now, the wind is still blowing like crazy! Can't tell if its still snowing b/c the wind is so hard it could just be stirring things up. Can't wait to see what it all looks like in the morning!